Hello All I'm Neil

Firstly I am new to model boating and new to the forum.
Never built a boat before.
I've acquired a nice model boat kit, I'm looking forward to building and sailing it, I hope I can get some help and answers to some questions I have here, this seems like a great forum.
Firstly glues? I've used PVA for a lot of stuff in the past, It's brilliant stuff but no good for boats, What is the standard waterproof glue for boat building? Also my kit has an ABS hull, will normal Araldite epoxy be ok to use on it? I know it won't melt it, I'm more worried if epoxy will stay stuck to ABS long term? Especially where the mast glues into the bottom of the hull.
Second question. When I fit the deck into the hull what would be a good way of sealing it around the edges without being too messy? I'm worried if I use filler which needs to be sanded afterwards I will spoil the printed finish on the wooden deck, is there a clean and easy way to do it which will give me a water tight seal?
Third question, where can I buy lead for ballast? I need some 3mm sheet for building into the keel to start with and probably some more later for ballast, which could probably be lead shot from a fishing shop or gunshop but I wouldn't know where to get 3mm sheet from.
Sorry if my questions seem odd and have obvious answers, I've used the search box, (which did clear up some other questions), there is so much information already here.
Thanks
Neil