Ron, thanks for your encouragement, but don't let it put you off - please, turn the light back on and come out of your bedroom! Let it inspire. You ask 'how?'. Firstly I have been doing this for over 50 years in various types of modelling, now it's boats. I always use enough heat to do the job of a good joint, but also so that the solder [soft or silver] flows around the joint in a think layer, no lumps, hence using jsut enough solder for the job. Then I use a small file to remove any excess, then using old Swiss [Vallorbe] files to take it back to the original brass or stainless steel. If it's a round [tube or rod] joint I use a small Swiss 'rat tail' file. Then I finish with wet and dry glued to old lolly or coffee stirrers, moving on to a Dremmel drill wire brush or polishing pad and the final clean-up with a cloth and Cif cream [used to be Jif]. Maybe that's why I am a paid up member of the ERCU! It can be therapeutic, but it is time consuming - maybe that's why I haven't finished a boat yet!!
Another bit of detail I wanted to do [and it might have been noticed by a few] is the profiling of the kick-boards - I have never seen it on another lifeboat yet. I fettled the 'T' section sent by Speedline, the hardest being the front ones which bend in three directions - they needed a lot of patience, vice, small oak square length and a small ball pane hammer. Then when they fitted the deck I added cut some gray styrene sheet lengths, 'super' [CNA] glued them on and then again with various grades of wet and dry, took the top edge off and gradually, by hand, made them slope down at an angle. They will eventually be primed and sprayed the correct grey.