Neither am I a gardener. Some how or other the female gardeners in the household do allow me to perform certain tasks in the garden. Guess what, weeding, grass cutting, trimming hedges etc.
Anything to do with pretty flowers is definitely out of the question for me, other than digging the holes and adding fertilizer/mulch, under supervision.
A few years ago I broke the rule, took myself to the garden centre and bought myself a plant. A beautiful Peony. Unfortunately on the first planting a cat dug it up. I re-planted it and hey presto, I now grow beautiful flowers.
Seriously I hope to spend more time in the garden in future years, as it is a fabulous way of relieving stress, subject to a self time management system.
Tony.