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Colin Bishop

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #25 on: December 20, 2009, 02:52:41 pm »

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I just think that it is a sad reflection of the times in which we live that some people believe that women have no sense of humour and must be protected from us big rough blokes.

And maybe they do.

I spent most of my career working very closely with a minority of women in a male dominated environment. There was an unquestioning assumption of superiority on the part of the male contingent even though many of the women could wipe the floor with them intellectually. Sexist jokes were common in the earlier days and the women duly laughed at them, after all it was expected of them and it was the males who held the positions of authority - always best to laugh at the boss' jokes isn't it?

The majority of the men were normal blokes who just took the situation for granted, it just came naturally to them to not appreciate the contribution of their women colleagues, take them for granted and judge them on appearance rather than ability - it's what blokes do isn't it? And we are not talking 20 years ago, we are talking now!

When I retired, ten of my female colleagues insisted on taking me out for a drink to express their thanks for the way I had expressed my appreciation for their work and for "sticking up for them". My male colleagues where quite baffled by this as I suspect would be some of the posters on this thread.

Although not directly relevant to this topic, I also found that women usually worked a damn sight harder than their male counterparts.

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #26 on: December 20, 2009, 02:55:31 pm »

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It is interesting that tigertiger who moderated this thread has had nothing to say as to why he felt it was necessary. Was Mrs tigertiger so incensed by it that he felt he had to intervene? if so that is at least a reason that I can understand. I would also act to stop my wife from being upset.
     Perhaps tigertiger would let us know. Dave.

As he lives in China he's probably in bed by now.
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Bunkerbarge

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #27 on: December 20, 2009, 03:34:01 pm »

Seems to me that the moderators are in a majority of 2 regarding the sensitivity of women.
Cheer yourself up Bob tell me a joke. {-)

All the moderating team try to support the principles of the forum as expressed in the introductory message and the forum guidelines, therefore all the moderating team agree with Bob and with Tiger Tiger.  Consequently we are not talking of a majority of two here we are talking of the moderating team led by the site owner, Martin. 

As far as we are concerned Martin is a majority of one and has every right to do exactly as he wants with this forum so there isn't much point in arguing whether he is right or wrong, it's his forum to do what he wants with it and to set whatever standards he feels appropriate.

As far as jokes are concerned every one has slightly different levels of appropriate standards and they have to be one of the most difficult things to judge so at the end of the day let's just simply accept that if a joke has been removed then one of the moderating team has decided it was pushing things too far and he will be supported by the rest of the team.  Isn't it in every ones interest to accept that in a positive manner and move on to more productive topics?
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MCR

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #28 on: December 20, 2009, 04:45:15 pm »

A majority of one, its my football who wants to play OK
However all that I wanted to know is why the jokes had been pulled it seems clear now its because the moderators can so. If you don't like it hard lines.
Might I add that a good look at the Joke thread is called for by the TEAM, as I thought its littered with jokes in bad taste (most of the best jokes are) many directed at minority groups.
Massive inconsistence in the policy of this Forum but who am I to comment its a one man show anyway.
Perhaps it would be a good idea to remove all the chat threads after all think of the modelling we could all be doing instead of reading this C**P. I have just looked at the time I have wasted on this forum and made my mind up enough is enough no more. I will look out for the Mayhem crew at the next show I am at (easy to spot the pr*ts wearing the hats) and say what I really think, till then bye bye thanks to the genuine model boaters I have spoken to and met via the forum.
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davidm1945

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #29 on: December 20, 2009, 06:49:06 pm »

Well, I'm not going to have a hissy fit about something which is at best a minor annoyance.

I would suggest we keep the forum to what it is intended for - model boats.

Humour is so subjective perhaps it is better left out - there are other non modelling websites that we can visit if we want a laugh.

Still, it's a shame though....

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Re: Show this to your wife/partner
« Reply #30 on: December 21, 2009, 12:00:05 am »

I am late joining this discussion due to the time difference, but I completely agree with Bunkerbarge's statement that ALL the moderating team support the principles of the Forum, therefore it most certainly is NOT a majority of two. I fully support the actions taken in moderating this thread.

I don't know how many times it has been said that Martin is the site owner, and sets the standards under which the Forum operates. We, as moderators, do our best to uphold those standards, and I for one make no apology if some people are upset by decisions made by the moderating team in doing so.

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