Well I am not sure how this is going down with you or if anyone tried the above experiment but we shall press on.
The easiest soldered joint is a capillary joint i.e. the two metals to be joined are so close together that the solder is drawn into the joint by capillary attraction. This joint if done correctly is extremely strong and will take an awful amount of stress.
As an exercise try the following simple joint. Get two pieces of similar metal i.e. both brass that have flats on them.
Clean the flat surface of one, flux warm and apply solder as you observe the solder melt leave the lamp in place for a few seconds more. Then with a lint free cloth quickly wipe away the excess solder, this should leave you with a nice shiny tinned piece of metal.
Repeat the process on the otherwork piece and allow both to cool.
Now again clean both tinned surfaces `I would use fine grade steel wool` and apply your flux. Place both work pieces together with the tinned faces touching. Make sure they cannot move and apply the heat source. You will observe the tinning solder start to melt as this happens just touch the joint with your solder enough to melt a very small amount, this solder will run into the joint.
Remove the heat source and leave to cool, do not move the work piece at all until it as cooled properly. Remembering that if the joint is disturbed before the solder has solidified the joint will crack and lose all its strength.
Once the joint has cooled enough to be easily handled try and part the work piece with a screw driver and hammer or something similar. If the joint has been correctly made it will take some considerable force, usually enough to damage the brass work piece.
If it parts easily you have got something wrong and you should try again. The usual problems would be, not cleaned properly, not enough heat or moved to quickly and the joint has cracked.
Good luck Colin H.