I actually posted to the topic already, but it seems to have disappeared! I hope I am not the victim of an overzealous mod!!! basically, to keep it simple, I use a multi charger that measures the capacity which it puts into a battery. this way you can monitor how much capacity a battery takes while charging. That is really the main thing to consider when looking at batteries getting to end of life. if they take in, and give out a good capacity, then keep using them. Something like an "accucel 6" that I use is not very expensive, and will charge and monitor, niHm, nicad, SLA, pb, lipo. so I use one charger to charge everything.
SLA are a bit different. only ever trickle charge as too much current makes bubbles form in the gel, reducing the capacity. I would only charge them at a max of 1/10 capacity (7aH = 700mAh charge) but to be safe I tend to charge them at 300mAh.