Good morning!
Nice weather for sailing!........................ I'll go right after walking the dog!

JJS, I think that your problem is coming from the regulator which does not allow enough gas to pass thru. The informations that you give (& I agree w/ HS93) it takes too long to built up pressure & your running time is also too long. You built up temp & pressure , but too slow. You should deliver more heat in a shorter period of time.
I have the feeling that your run with regulator closed and the gas is passing thru the safety orifice. (I don't know the name). Which allows the burner to go on slowly.
You probabbly need to do another test and check on your flare. You should hear a strong blow. And , if you did not touch the calibration of it, the flare should almost die when the pressure reaches 30psi.
You say, your V70 "coupe gas" is set @ 40 psi and your working pressure is +/- 20 psi. So your gas should not reach the regulator. If it does, there is something wrong.
Anton regulators do not really regulate, but cut off the main gas port when the pressure is reached and allow a weak leak to maintain the burner going on.
Now if, your regulator is set low and the "leak port" is opened too much, it means that your regualtor is not doing the job. Most of the gas is coming out the wrong way.
I suggest that you try again with the knob of the regulator , completly screwed in . When the pressure reaches 30 psi, you unscrew it, until you hear the flare almost diying.
If the flare remains strong or still strong, you then have to tight the small screw on the regulator's side untill it allows a small flare for the burner too stay burning.
Remember also that if your V70 is set higher than the regualtor pressure is set, it will not work. You must set this coupe gas at +/- 10 psi. This is enough for the safety of the boiler.
If you have any problem, we can go step by step on MP. I understand that the longer I am in my explanations, and the more confusing i am.

No sorrows, it will work.

Have a good day!