what you could also do after you have either patination or painted your white metal parts to add a bit of realism is use MIG productions Oil and Grease Stain Mixture available from
www.migproductions.comThe only set back is that they recommend whatever you use it on is painted with acrylic paint for the best effects, AFV modellers use MIG pigments to add weathering, mud, oil and grease stains, rain/water marks and even snow effects!!!
For some brilliant weathering and aging effects try reading Tank Art Vol 1 and 2, the books inform the reader how to age model tanks but with a bit of modification I'm sure they could be used on model boats.