RC gear these days is mostly 2G4.
This has the plus side that it doesn't need crystals for tuning/selecting the radio channel, and it costs relatively a lot less than the equivalent gear from just a few years ago.
It has the downside that manufacturers can lock you in to their brand. Most of it is aimed at aircraft That doesn't stop it working with boats, but the instructions usually need a lot of translation to make them useful.
If you want a lot of functions, that will mean enough channels on the set, which will cost more. Most makes, you can bind as many receivers as you want to one transmitter. Best to have a look at questions, suggestions and comments in the radio section. You might find that your questions, both the immediate ones and those you haven't thought of yet, are in there.