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Title: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Mrs Stav on January 01, 2022, 07:33:01 pm
I have been tasked by Susan Malcolms Daughter to bring you this Sad sad News, Malcolm passed away suddenly at his home last night or in the early hours.......She has asked that no speculation is to be entered into.


On a personal note from Stav  and Iain both of who are  devastated as not only was he a Member of his club but a fellow show organiser.


Obviously our condolances go to his Family



Funeral Arrangements will be posted here at a later date


Kelly and Stav.

Title: Re: Malcolmfrary RIP
Post by: Stan on January 01, 2022, 08:12:16 pm
Hi this very sad news he will be a great loss to the hobby and the model world.


Stan.
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Title: Re: Malcolmfrary RIP
Post by: Colin Bishop on January 01, 2022, 08:33:41 pm
So dreadfully sorry to hear this. Malcolm was a mainstay on the Model Boats forum as well as Mayhem. He really will be missed.

My condolences to the family.

Colin
Title: Re: Malcolmfrary RIP
Post by: tonyH on January 01, 2022, 08:57:02 pm
Really sad news indeed. So generous with his help and advice, a guiding light to many of us.

TonyH
Title: Re: Malcolmfrary RIP
Post by: raflaunches on January 01, 2022, 09:28:23 pm
My condolences to his family and friends. He will be sorely missed in the hobby as he was always there to advise. RIP Malcom
Title: Re: Malcolmfrary RIP
Post by: chas on January 02, 2022, 12:01:19 am
Awful news. He'll be missed by so many of us. Always helpful and so very knowledgeable. There's another huge gap in the modeling world, and I'm sure a much bigger one in his families one. My condolences to all who knew him, and especially to his loved ones.

Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Peter Fitness on January 02, 2022, 09:55:31 am
Very sad news. Malcolm was a frequent contributor to Mayhem, his last post was only a couple of days ago. He will be greatly missed by many in the hobby and, I’m sure, elsewhere.


My sincere condolences to his family.


Peter.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Bowwave on January 02, 2022, 10:02:37 am
So sad I have known  Malcolm  for many years  from the time of  the original   start up of the Blackpool Model show  through to 2021  always helpful and supportive a truly great loss to to the hobby but especially  to all his family and friends RIP my old  friend .
Dave Wooley
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Buccaneer on January 02, 2022, 01:37:29 pm
Sad News. Malcolm was always willing to share his knowledge and over the years gave lots of us very sound advice.
John
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: roycv on January 02, 2022, 01:38:16 pm
Very sorry to hear this sad news.  Malcolm was a much respected source of so much knowledge he will be missed.  My condolences to his family.
Roy
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: SteamboatPhil on January 02, 2022, 05:09:19 pm
A sad loss and has been said very greatly missed, my thoughts are with the family.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Corposant on January 02, 2022, 10:15:26 pm
Devastating news indeed. Malcolm's knowledge, wisdom and helpfulness have been second to none. My condolences to his famiy.
Mike
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: ballastanksian on January 02, 2022, 10:29:51 pm
Rest in peace Mr Frary. I did not know you like so many lucky folk on this forum, but send my condolences to his family and close friends.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Barry on January 03, 2022, 12:23:22 am
From the Model Boats forum.
Sadly further t.o the very sad news about Malcolm, his daughter posted on facebook tonight this awful and diabolical news.
Blackpool Police: A murder investigation is underway following the death of a man in Blackpool.

https://mipp.police.uk/operation/0401020121W10-PO1?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=Orlo (https://mipp.police.uk/operation/0401020121W10-PO1?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=Orlo)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-lancashire-59857607 (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-lancashire-59857607)



Admin: Everyone is horrified at what has happened and naturally we all want to know more but they can find that out from news reports online.

The fact that Malcolm's death is the subject of a murder investigation is in the public domain and has been widely reported on in socal media, online & including on BBC national news, so best the investigation is not discussed or speculated here on Mayhem.

But please feel free to post messages of condolence & and happy anecdotes of Malcolm if you have them.   

Our most sincere condolences to all the family and friends.

 Martin - Mayhem
 
 



Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: 6705russell on January 03, 2022, 07:37:25 am
Sad sad news, hits home when it’s someone you have talked to in the past, thoughts to his family.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: jaymac on January 03, 2022, 10:37:12 am
Maybe best if this is kept to just condolences /memories etc,.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: aeronut on January 03, 2022, 11:00:25 am
Oh, that's really awful news.  My very sincere condolences to Malcolm's family.


G.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Taranis on January 03, 2022, 11:35:43 am
It's taken a while to sink in. My deepest sympathy and condolences to his family and friends
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: tigertiger on January 03, 2022, 11:41:28 am
Maybe best if this is kept to just condolences /memories etc,.
 

You are right, and this would be in keeping with the family's wishes.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Colin Bishop on January 03, 2022, 12:11:27 pm
Yes, we won't be speculating on the circumstances on the MB Forum either.  What we know already is tragic enough. The facts will emerge in due course.

Colin
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Subculture on January 04, 2022, 12:28:08 pm
Terrible circumstances in his passing. I was only familiar with Malcolm via his posts on this site so never really knew him in person. There are some very wicked people out there.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: SusanF on January 05, 2022, 01:03:51 pm
Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. It is of great comfort to both myself and my family to know that my dad was so highly thought of and will be remembered as the kind and generous man that we all knew.


I have authorised Dave to give updates with regards to details as and when they are made and passed on to him.


Thank you
Susan Frary
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Colin Bishop on January 05, 2022, 01:29:53 pm
I have copied Susan's posting to the Model Boats Forum.

Colin
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Martin (Admin) on January 05, 2022, 06:20:37 pm
Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. It is of great comfort to both myself and my family to know that my dad was so highly thought of and will be remembered as the kind and generous man that we all knew.

I have authorised Dave to give updates with regards to details as and when they are made and passed on to him.

Thank you
Susan Frary

 Again, our most sincere condolences, Susan & thanks for taking the time to post here on Model Boat Mayhem.

 Malcolm had made many friends here on mayhem and was held in high regard for his electrical & electronics knowledge,
 ..... gently correcting me on several occasions!  O0

(https://i.postimg.cc/62zqd2Nh/malcolm-frary-a.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/62zqd2Nh)
He'll be greatly missed.
 
 Martin - Mayhem


 

Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: RST on January 10, 2022, 09:06:54 pm
Sad news to read on here and other forums.

I don't like to say sorry because it's too easy a word to say but very saddened and truly shocked to read of this in the news also, my thoughts are to the family and friends on this horrible news with a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat as I type.

Richard
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP Funeral Arrangements
Post by: Mrs Stav on January 12, 2022, 11:40:07 am
Ive just been By Asked by Susan Frary of her Fathers .funeral




Malcolm Fray Will be laid to rest on the 26th Day of January at 1045 at Lytham Crem, Regent Avenue, Lytham St Annes FY8 4AB.


Please note Family Flowers ONLY and a collection for the Blackpool branch of the RNLI.


Aparantly there will be room for 50 inside the crem but there is covered standing room where the service will be relayed outside.


The wake details will be sent to me as soon as the Family have an idea of Numbers.....if you are planning to go to the Wake can you PLEASE LET ME KNOW BY MESSAGE ONLY so I can tell Suan apporx Numbers


Thanks Kelly and Stav



Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Mrs Stav on January 13, 2022, 12:52:22 pm
Details of the wake for anyone wishing to attend


South Shore Tennis Club,
Midgeland Road,
Blackpool,
FY4 5HZ


PLEASE if you are attending can you please message me personally on here and i will let Susan Know Thanks


If anyone wants to Donate to the Blackpool RNLI I will in Due course when i get the relevant info from the family of where to send donations to when She gets the info off the funeral Directors


Thanks


Kelly and Dave

Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Mrs Stav on January 13, 2022, 08:20:33 pm
Link to how to donate in Memory of Malcolm


https://blackpoolfunerals.co.uk/charity-donations/?fbclid=IwAR1eqaI67cDkjYWxVGIjg854r0gPghD6NkQP4PEx1PMcRGF5fe9--vdLxcc

Kelly and Dave
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Mrs Stav on January 23, 2022, 10:13:02 pm
if there is anyone Planning on going to the Wake After attending the Crematorium  can you lease message me by Tuesday evening please so i can let Susan Know Thanks


Kelly and Dave
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Martin (Admin) on July 06, 2022, 09:36:23 pm
'Calculated and wicked' killer jailed:   https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-lancashire-62020947
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Taranis on July 06, 2022, 09:44:57 pm
Well done the investigation team. Only 19 yrs jail  >:-o   Just another one to add to the near 6,000 murderers in jail growing at an average of 300 per year.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: RST on July 06, 2022, 09:53:48 pm
Thanks for posting that Martin.  I feel slightly sick reading the article but just glad they caught the guy and there was follow-up.  Thoughts to the family.


Rich
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Circlip on July 07, 2022, 11:21:15 am
UNFORTUNATELY that's going to cost us a lot of money over the next nineteen years. >:-o


  Regards  Ian.
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: John W E on July 07, 2022, 04:03:08 pm
RIP my dear friend; such a sad loss.


We have to question today's society and the laws today. 




john
Title: Re: Malcolm Frary RIP
Post by: Ghost in the shell on March 07, 2023, 10:12:37 pm
I feel ashamed to have only just found out about Malc's passing.   

Malc was always there to help, one to turn to for advice and so will be missed by all.

RIP Malc.   May you be blessed with calm seas and fair winds.