Sometimes it is nice to know where someone comes from, or their age, and I'm quite happy giving that information. However, some people are happier not giving that information out - I'd rather have them on the forum contributing, than have them exclude themselves.
Mind you Tobyker's not my real name - Norry thinks it's a road sign in Newcastle!
Funny that! I always hear your name in my head that way! It may have something to do with the fact that there's someone on another forum who posts as Tomangler and I've always heard his name in my head as Toe mangler. I know, I'm just strange
On a more serious note, I don't think it matters if people use a nickname but I do think it's useful if a general indication of location is shown on the profile. I compromise as in many things! I signed up with a nickname because I wasn''t sure about this whole forum idea (I'm not anti-social but my other interests are covered by email lists, which, to be honest, I prefer, or newsgroups. Once I'd been around for a few days I started signing with my real Christian name.
Maybe a strongerr hint about location in the welcome note is the answer.
Cheers
Guy