BB, I know you will disagree with me, but I really don't think Ronson valves are wasteful. Yes you get a few little liquid gas splashes when the tank is full and a bit of errant gas hissing about if you don't quite get the nozzle on correctly, but in reality, if it was possible to measure the amount of gas lost (which it's not), then I am certain it would be a negligible amount. My reasoning is that I can get so many refills of my medium sized Cheddar gas tank, from a blowtorch sized canister of gas, I probably only used four or five during my busiest sailing seasons, when I was attending shows and open events almost every week, all summer.
We each have our own ways of doing things, such is the fun of steam and modelling, and I accept that you prefer to use a decanting method, but I like to keep things simple, and if a Ronson valve is good enough for all the commercial manufacturers of small refillable gas appliances out there, then it's good enough for me.