Dear U33,
I do hope not. There are too many good people on Mayhem who are very well meaning.
Ok, there are ructions sometimes, inevitable, but all is done and dusted one way and another. My experience with Mayhem, my small experience, makes clear that as long as one stays within the bounds of reason all is well... yes, I have come close to falling foul, but, then, it was all 'sorted' very quickly.
I haven't read this Thread, nor do I know what it is all about, so I suppose it could be said that I would be best to mind my own business. All I can say, however, is, that maybe letting things rest is probably the best solution.
Regards, Bernard