David....back to cleanliness......you can clean the components.....but even the natural oil from your skin/fingers is sufficient contaminate the joint
Once the component is clean....a little drop of Bakers liquid flux [applied with a cotton bud or small paint brush] will assist maintaining that cleanliness until the joint is soldered
Remember too.....you cannot clean/polish a 0.5 diameter wire with 1200 wet & dry paper today & expect it to be OK tomorrow..........
the moisture in air is sufficient to cause oxidation overnight
If I could suggest...even with conventional low temperature soft solder [tin/lead] + flux ....stick with your gas pencil torch......I find them invaluable
for fine component soldering....
There is a MBM member George G from Canada.....try & find some of his postings.......he is a real artisan of soft soldering
..........Derek