As for glueing, you could try.
After application of oil and vinegar. Make sure it is fully dry, on the surface. Then wipe off all surface residue with white spirits.
This might work, as I use this to (believe it or not) prepare wood stained with an OIL based stain, before using a WATER based varnish. Glue choice could still be an issue, but maybe not. Some woods are oily anyway, and glue ok. You could do a google search on oily woods and glue.