I used Farnell & Digikey & have hundreds of optocouplers. But you will find the Ebay modules are useful for RC and time saving. You should be able to saw off a section of a multi-unit with screw terminals. Don't wreck a bandsaw blade cutting FR4 fibreglass by the way. Score & snap. You find optocouplers and relays in all sorts of E-waste.
Moduleshttps://www.ebay.co.uk/sch/i.html?kw=opto%20isolatorIf you go down this route it would help to confirm the trigger switch current is less than one mA and successful trigger by ~ 470 ohm does that.
You then know a worst case value for I
t. Optocouplers have a current transfer ratio (CTR) of I
t/I
d and you see it in the device data sheet.
PC817 is a typical 50% so you bias the infra red diode for
at least twice the minimum transistor current.
You will find a module's surface mount resistors bias for ~50mA so you should be able to dial it back with a higher value.
I'd be looking again why the relay didn't work, if it is really faulty, and if your eight ohm reading was really correct. Sparking damages the contacts, excess heat makes the soft plastic case melt and squeeze the soft insulation plastic. You could try levering off the case to clean or bend the contacts.
If you don't own a digital multimeter then I think it is worth you buying a £5 to £10 one.

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