Hi Solitary, Bogs,
Good to hear you came to your senses- i've got every faith in you- it's surprising what skills we use in ouir day to day jobs that can be carried over into boilermaking.
Just for the record this is how I silver solder- this is not to say that this is any better than how anyone else does it but this is the way I find works best for me-
first materials-
solder- easyflo no.2
flux- johnnson matthy to suit solder
heat source- rothenberger proffesional soldering/brazing torch using MAPP gas.
I mix the flux to a double cream consistency (don't put it on a scone though!!!

), first though I add a single drop of washing up liquid to the dry powder- this acts as a degreaser for any residual oil on the surface so the flux can properly attack the oxidation- I then add single drops of water at a time bringing it upto the right consistency.
I clean the ciopper thoroughly using a scourer the wash under water- i then spread a thin layer of flux onto each of the surfaces to be sweated, if it's the right consistency it should just stick to the copper- too runny and it dries off before it runs and too thick it tends to bunch up when tthe surfaces mate leading to unpenetrated joints.
At this point i'm probably telling you how to suck eggs but I hope it might be of some help to someone else.
After the two fluxed surfaces are mated I 'cook' the joint - ie. I heat it allover to get the flux to adhere to the surface, once the peice is upto temperature (same as sweating temp. for aircon. pipework 850-870deg.c) and cherry red feed the solder into the joint- if you can do this uprigh greavity and capillary action will do all the work all thats required of you is to keep it hot enough and to put enough solder in- both of which you should be profficient at.
Next let the joint cool of it's own volition- not in cold water!!!!!!!
Use a wire brush once it's cooled down to remove any flux residue then pickle in citric acid (from chemists) overnight to get rid of any flux you may have missed and to clean off any oxidation.
Soft solder and comsol are as Bogs said a complete no no- they eill not stand the combined heat and pressure of a model boiler- however on proper rivetted model boilers- pre silver solder (i've got one at my parents that i'll have to show you) soft solder, then later comsol, was used to plug the rivetted joints- if well done this joint is just as strong as silver solder.
Looking forward to seeing progress- have you made a design yet? Fully recommend 'model boilers and boilermaking' by K N Harris- Tee Publishing- everything you need to know about sheer strengths, inherent design flaws, efficiency, heating surface etc.
Greg