Hi Mickeyfinns
Welcome to the forum and I hope you find all the help you require.
With regards to TBDs there are several books available, some relatively cheap and others in the £30-40 range.
The best one for all things TBDs would be 'British Destroyers From the Earliest Days to World War Two' by Norman Friedman. It details all the vessels used from the 1880s to 1935 essentially the 30, 35, 40knotters to the A to I classes that served with the Royal Navy.
The cheaper book is called 'Early Destroyers' by Lyons, a very good book with a proper General Arrangements plan of HMS Mohawk by John Roberts.
A member of the forum Bob K has built an A class TBD called HMS Amazon, a rather brilliant model built from a Deans Marine kit.
Hope this helps
Nick B