You don't need fans on your coupling, that's just crazy talk! You do say you have tightened the locknut on the propshaft, you should be tightening it on the coupling! Working back from the motor it should be as follows, motor, plain brass insert, UJ, threaded insert, lock nut tightened against threaded insert, about 1/32" free floating fore and aft, a washer, the propshaft assembly, then a washer, a lock nut tightened against your propeller and the back side of the boat. Everything should run nice and free and you should have the slightest fore and aft wiggle on the coupling assembly. Now come on, crack on chap, no excuses!