I'm not a member of a club (only just started building my first boat) had a couple of non controlled pod yachts when i was little and a battery operated Billings White star, could never afford the RC kit though so it was bend the rudder where i wanted it and walk round to meet it.
I think the trouble with all special interest clubs, RC stuff, real cars, boats, sailing, golf whatever is you always get some idiot who thinks he knows everything but knows sod all, then others who do know everything but treat it like a state secret but worst of all you always find someone who takes it all far too seriously.
My dad once came across someone who had hand made a J class yacht from scratch and based it on a particular real craft down to the last detail, however instead of putting the name of the real boat on it he named it after his grand-daughter. Someone then came along and gave him a bollocking for giving it such a 'stupid name', as it should have had the real boats name on it. The guy had spent years making the thing and took offence to his grand-daughters name being called stupid, so a punch up started.